February 29, 2016

Lose the label, find the child. Reframing Aspergers.

  “It’s time to take joy in everything that our kids are.”- Dan Pearce. Single Dad Laughing So you have a child with Aspergers. If you are looking for sympathy you’re in the wrong place.  If you are looking for empathy and a way to release yourself and your child from destructive victim energy, you’re right on time; you’re perfectly aligned. Diversity is everything. It brings beauty, it builds love, it facilitates change; it’s a crucial part of evolution. Believing that divergence is a problem is the real problem. Buying into the idea that there are ‘norms’ is destructive and unhelpful. Choosing to re-frame differences is empowering, it breeds acceptance (especially self-acceptance), it cultivates tolerance and literally creates new worlds and enhanced, enlightened […]
June 3, 2016

What is love?

WHAT IS LOVE? What is Love? I can tell you what it is not. Love is not tainted by duty Nor by obligation or even loyalty. Guilt plays no part in Loves’ true essence, In the clear waters of its’ pure vibration. Love does not speak in tones of “I know what is best for you” It doesn’t thrive or expand in an atmosphere of control Or grow in to hearty health by the imposition of boundaries, Do’s or don’ts, should’s or shouldn’ts. Rights or wrongs. Love shrivels and withers if there is expectation involved. It becomes a distant many times removed cousin When presented on a platter decorated with fear Or garnished with worry or self gratifying concern. Love is only […]
June 20, 2016

Solstice Spiralling. The three C’s: Crystalline grids, Cetaceans and Children.

” The light of the Sun which illuminates the whole Universe, which is present in the moon and in fire likewise- Know that splendour to be mine.’ – Krishna.  The Bhagavad Gita This is the perfect quote to encapsulate the current Solstice, Planetary and evolutionary processes at work right now. We have just moved fully into the Solstice.  For Northern climes it indicates the longset day of the year and for the  Southern Hemisphere we have the shortest day. Spiritually it is a marker in the year for change.  In addition, for the first time in 70 years we have a full moon; a Strawberry Moon too, in the firey but intensely spiritual constellation of Sagittarius. Arrows tipped with fire are poised on […]
June 25, 2016

Why do we keep having more children?

With everything that appears to be going on, going wrong with our world today I am often asked if we should really be bringing more children into our lives, or what the purpose of having children is all about. What is this innate desire to have a child for? Why does it inflict so many of us? Today, whilst in the midst of thoughts about Brexit, Trump, Orlando and more I was witness to the following.   I was enjoying a quiet coffee in the winter sunshine when I saw a beautiful Black toddler of about 2 spy another White as White little boy across the coffee shop. With no hesitation she made a bee line for the chubby cherub and approached […]